My husband has a big penis and now that you are on this page, I need to explain something that is critical to achieving that huge dick that you always wanted. Look at the words that I used to describe the size of his penis.
- Monster Cock
- Big Penis
- Huge Dick
Now think about what you do not see. Numbers.
Think about the last time you tried to put something in a box and it did not fit. It did not matter if the item was a 10-inch item if you were trying to put in a 9-inch box or a 3-inch item in a 2-inch box. In both cases, you thought “This is too BIG” or “The Box is too SMALL“. You did not think “This is 3 inches”
That is because size is relative. It does not matter what the number is, it matters how it fits.
That is because size is relative. It does not matter what the number is, it matters how it fits.
Penis Sizes that Please Women
Depending on the study, 40% to 60% of men are insecure about their penis size. Yet 84% of women are very satisfied with their man's penis size and only 6% classified their partner as small in this study.
So what is the truth? What really matters?
Penis size is made up of length and circumference (girth). Men measure penis size based on length. What women really care about is girth. Women want to feel full, not have something stabbing their cervix.
Adding Penis Length
As I said, the length is important to men and not so much to women. But to deal with male insecurities, we are going to cover this one first.
I have to tell you something EXTREMELY important first. You may not like it, but it is very important to this discussion. Every single article you read about penis enlargement and penis enlargement products makes money if you purchase a product.
This means that people writing about penis enlargement are at work, to earn money, to sell a product. They are NOT concerned with your dick. They are also not concerned if a product works.
Penis Pumps
Simply put, they don't work. Penis pumps are the most popular option out there. They do have real use in medicine and in some cases can be used to help with ED, but this is not what people are selling. They are selling penis pumps that will magically grow your cock to 10 inches. It will not happen. 100% of all controlled studies prove this. Marketers that make money will tell you otherwise. I sell sex toys for a living and I am telling you, DO NOT BUY THEM.
What can actually happen? Well, some people do claim a very minimum temporary change in size, but this is the only anecdotal. There is no study to support this. On top of that, a medical penis pump has pressure valves and is used for controlled amounts of time. The products that they sell can cause real physical harm.
The end results from a penis pump can be erections that are no longer stiff or lead to erectile dysfunction.
How is that for a solution? You buy a pump to enhance your cock and next thing you know, you can't even get it hard. That sounds like a no go for me.
Pills
Again, these just don't work. At this point in time, there is no study that can support any type of pill or supplement to change your penis size at all. None. Again here, these are high-profit items pushed by marketers, so the claims are great. Results… well that does not matter, you already paid for it. If the marketers are good and you are a real sucker they will convince you that you just need to buy more doses for more months to see real results.
All of these pills fall under the category of nutritional supplements. This means that none of the products need to be tested in any way or have any proof of effectiveness.
Since these products are not tested, they can put pretty much anything in them and none of them have been shown to work, at the very least this is a waste of money and most likely a gamble with your health. According to the Mayo Clinic, some of these can contain ingredients that are harmful to your health. Avoid these products.
Stretches and Jelqing
I bet you can guess. These do not work. Unlike the above techniques, there have been some studies that say things like if you stretch your penis for 9 hours a day for 3 months you may see a small increase in length. Then follow up surveys were not able to duplicate the results.
For me, that sounds like a lot of work for something that is on shaky data at best. When you do engage in stretching you run the risk of damaging tendons and if you do it when erect causing serious problems with your dick.
Surgery
Surgery is where you start to see some results. Of course, you have a large out of pocket cost, you have to have someone actually operate on your dick and the results are not so good. Again here some people end results are major long term problems.
According to the American Urologic Association, none of the surgery options have been proven to be SAFE or EFFECTIVE and these procedures are not endorsed by any major medical board.
Again, if you want to please your woman at all, stick with what you got over a surgery.
Finding the longer penis
Well as it turns out, there are a couple of things that can increase your length by over 20%!
Considering the average penis is right around 5 inches long, a 20% improvement is an inch. Some people will be able to get even more.
The first technique is to lose weight. Your penis does not start where you can see it. It actually starts where it attaches to your pelvic bone. This means the more distance between your pelvic bone and your skin, the shorter your penis. If you remove one inch of fat in this area, you will have a penis one inch longer.
So think about that for a second. You could spend 9 hours a day for 3 months stretching your dick for possible results, or you can get in shape for 3 months and have an inch longer penis and more stamina and it will most likely be harder.
The goal of having a long penis is to penetrate deeper into your partner. So this works with your partner as well. If your partner loses one inch of fat on her butt, you will be able to penetrate one in further into her.
So how great would that be? If you and your partner work out together for just a couple of months and you each lose one inch of fat, you could be able to penetrate her two inches deeper. Considering the average penis is just over 5 inches long and because you are limited to how far you can go because of your partner's shape you may only be getting 3 to 4 inches of stroke length. An increase of just 2 inches would be an increase of 50% to 70% in penetration depth.
Getting More Girthy
Now that we have covered length, it is time to cover what is really important: Penis Girth.
So I will get the bad news out of the way right away. All of the techniques that marketers claim will make your penis longer are the same ones they use for making it girthy. And the results are the same. They just don't work. Unfortunately, losing weight will not help you go get a fatter cock.
As the saying goes, there is more than one way to skin a cat. The goal is not always to have a thicker penis, the goal is a tighter fit. So if you can not make your penis have more circumference, can you make your woman's hole be smaller?
Shink Creams and Vagina Tighteners
Just like there are a lot of magic pills claiming to make your penis grow, there are magic creams claiming to shrink a woman's vagina. Unfortunately, the results are very much the same as the penis pills.
Some of the creams use potassium alum, the same ingredient that makes pickles firm, to temporarily make the vagina feel tighter. This is hit or miss and some people claim it works, others claim it does not. The challenge is telling the difference between a real result and a placebo effect. Then again if it is a placebo effect and the tightness is all in your mind, does it really matter?
But that is not the real challenge. The challenge is that the skin in the vagina is very thin and sensitive. Things can be quickly absorbed into the body and bloodstream. And just like the pills above, these are supplements and not subject to any testing, guarantees or FDA approval. Basically it is a gamble on what you are sticking into you for almost no real measurable result.
Vaginoplasty and Vagina Surgeries
Vagina tightening surgeries have become a trend lately. They call them designer vaginas. If you have money laying around and you think this is for you, there is nothing I am going to say in this article that will sway you one way or the other. It has become common enough that people think it is safe and have their minds made up.
But it should be noted that the American College of Obstetricians and Gynecologists does not endorse the effectiveness or safety of these vagina tightening surgeries. These surgeries existed to solve real functional problems that happen from things such as childbirth. Beyond these functional improvements, they do not have an opinion.
My personal opinion, as a woman who has had 4 babies exit from my vagina and one I tore pretty bad with, that scar tissue took a long time to heal. I wouldn't be willing to take a knife to my vagina or surrounding area unless it was medically needed. I feel like these are just trendy and women don't understand their vaginal lips and vagina are normal, in 99.999% of cases.
Kegel Exercises
Kegels are the one thing that can have a real measurable result. Much like above and losing weight, this will take some time but can be well worth it. If you can make vagina muscles stronger the penis will feel bigger and you will feel fuller.
There are 4 main methods of Kegel exercises: Flexing, ben wa balls, electro-stimulation, and Kegel trainers.
The most basic is to just do daily exercises where you flex your pelvic floor muscles. This is the most popular method and the most recommended by doctors, but I question the effectiveness. Sure this method works well, but some people are never sure if these are squeezing the right muscles, and the idea of being able to do it anywhere and time with no equipment is almost too informal. It makes it too easy to just put it off or forget about it. Just like any workout routine, consistency is the biggest factor in success.
Ben wa balls are another popular option. These are small typically metal balls that you insert into your vagina and you must use your muscles to hold them in place. The smaller the balls, the harder you must squeeze your muscles and thus the harder it is. Start with larger balls. Again here it is all about consistency. Ben wa balls are a lot of fun. There are some crazy ben wa lovers out there. Do you know that cardio bunny that runs on the treadmill for 2 hours a day? Well, they exist here in the ben wa balls too. There are people that spend hours a day using ben wa balls around the house, at the office, and in the car. For me, I am not after having a vagina that can crush a beer can, I am just aiming for 80% of the results in a small fraction of the time.
Electric Stimulation is the lazy man option for getting a tighter vagina and I LOVE IT. There are a lot of different electric stimulation options out there built just for doing this, but I prefer one that is built like a sex toy with a Kegel trainer over one that is a kegel trainer first. An example of this would be the MyStim which I reviewed here. When it is a sex toy first, I can do my kegel exercises as foreplay while my husband massages me, or watches. When I am ready, his penis feels much larger inside me. The drawback to electric stimulation exercises is that there are reports of decreased sensitivity with prolonged use of these devices. Nobody wants that. The goal is to increase tightness, not become numb. So this should be only for occasional or special use.
The best option for me is the Kegel trainer. I use the Kgoal. To me, the biggest positive of this is the gamification and the tracking. As I mentioned, consistency is the most important part of improvement. With the Kgoal, it has a phone app that measures how you flex your muscles and records the data as you play along with short 5-minute “games” with your vagina. This passes the time faster and gives you visual feedback. It also records your results of strength and control over time so you can see your improvements. This daily tracking keeps you consistently working to improve.
Instant Penis Enlargement
So at the end of the day, I know all of you want to have a bigger penis today. I still strongly recommend the weightloss and Kegels, for instant results I recommend finding the right sex positions.
I need to really stress, for a girl size is about GIRTH and size is relative. To get there you can make the penis seem bigger of the vagina feel tighter. Both will have the same results. But making the vagina feel smaller is something you can do just by changing sex positions.
Missionary
When it comes to positions, the missionary position is about the worst for tightness. Because the woman's legs need to be open wide- so is the vagina. When you learn about childbirth it is talked about often how a woman needs to keep her jaw not locked and her mouth open- the vagina will follow. The same with the legs being open so is the vagina.
Legs Together
If you want to have more tightness you can focus on positions that involve the girl having her legs together. Common positions for this would be spooning or missionary with the woman's legs together and the man's legs outside of hers.
Legs Up
Legs up will always add more tightness. When I said legs up, I generally mean knees closer to your boobs. This could be something like missionary with your legs up and over your man's shoulders, but also something like doggy style with your knees pulled way up under you.
Sex Swings – Longer Deeper Strokes
If you are still looking to get the results of a massive dick, consider a sex swing. This is not the traditional advice you normally see in penis enlargement articles, but this works. What a sex swing brings to the bedroom is the ability to move effortlessly and with a lot more control. With a woman laying in a sex swing and her legs elevated, the man can have total control to move her and the swing back with no effort. This allows him to maximize the range of motion. Rather than being on a bed and moving 3 or 4 inches, the swing allows you to easily have the maximum range of motion making each thrust feel much longer and deeper for both the man and the woman. Also, this removes a lot of big butt or weight problems for the girl and gives the man access directly to the vagina. Read more about sex swings here.
Get That Massive Cock Action Steps
First off, forget all the gimmick toys, lubes, pills and such. You are better off spending all that money on some awesome sex toys. Not sure where to spend it, check out our sex toys for couples guide.
Next, start exploring positions that will immediately make your cock “feel thicker” and her vagina “feel tighter”. Consider a sex swing to add a considerable range of motion and longer smother strokes.
Get in shape. Losing weight can make your penis longer by exposing more of your penis that is hidden below skin and fat. If your woman loses weight as well, it can give you the ability to penetrate even deeper.
You will feel larger if your woman is tighter. This can be achieved through Kegel exercises over a period of several months. You can use this exercise time as foreplay and the togetherness can greatly improve your sex life.
Sorry, there is no magic pill to instantly look like a porn star, but that is OK. That is not what women want. Women just want to feel full and that is something even a below-average person can deliver.