Over the last several years, a new wave of new sex toy have been getting a lot of attention. Real Dolls. They are the subject of media stories talking about socially awkward introverts with no people skills and being the butt of endless internet jokes. I think they have it all wrong. Sex dolls are not made for the weird guy in another town, they are made for people just like you. Normal people.
In our house, we have always had a fascination with realistic sex dolls since we first seen the Real Doll many years ago, but we were put off by the 5 figure sales price. That is a lot of money to cough up on something that you do not even know if you are going to use or like. But we kept watching and slowly as more competitors have entered the market, the prices have come down. Yeah there is some real crap out there that for a few hundred bucks you can buy a toy that looks good online, but in reality looks like a science experiment gone bad and will give your dog nightmares.
Threesome Fantasy
We were recently reading the book “Tell Me What You Want“. A book dedicated to the largest survey of sexual fantasies. According to the survey, 90% of women and 94% of men have had a fantasy of a threesome. That is a lot of people, and far different than another survey that says only 18% of men and 10% endorsed such behavior.
What is the different? How can we have such vastly different numbers?
In the first case study (Tell Me What You Want), they asked about something in their mind. What people were interested in or thought about. In the second case they asked about their interest in doing things. These are vastly different scenarios.
There is a very big difference between wanting to have sex with multiple people and actually telling your spouse about it or seeing your spouse with another partner and being accepting of the act. Bringing in another person changes the relationship dynamic and makes things real. You can fantasize about it, but saying it is appealing and want one with a real person is a different story.
But how different could things be with a sex doll? Now, a woman that wants to experience double penetration does not need to talk to her husband about sleeping with another man. She does not need to deal with his potential jealousy issues, fear of STDs, her own insecurities, or any other awkwardness.
A realistic sex doll can allow couples to explore some of their biggest fantasies without putting additional emotional or physical risk into their relationship.
World of Possibilities – Real Doll Threesomes
The realization that the silicone sex dolls were actually for normal people like me was incredible. I have been one of those people that have always had lots of fantasies. Most people know that because I am not afraid to talk about anything, but actually crossing the line to a real threesome while 20 years into a relationship is a little terrifying. On the other hand, the desires to experience double penetration, to play with boobs, to see penetration up close, to experience people of different races, etc. The options are many. Where do I even begin?
So 15 years ago when the Real Dolls first entered my radar, I saw the high $6K to $7k price tag. I was not discouraged, but I kinda put this as a bucket list item. That is a lot of money. Fast forward 15 years and now I see that you can get dolls in the $2K price range. WHAT? That is totally different. But since I have been think all these years about spending $7k… well I just decided to opt for 2 of them right out of the gate. One male and one female.
Buying a Sex Doll
Let's just say, you get what you pay for. Everyone knows this, but then we all think we are the lucky person to get the most awesome deal in the world only to be slightly disappointed when it arrives. Same thing goes for dolls.
In my excitement I went out right away an purchase a lower price one such as these on our site. Do I regret it? No. Are they good? Sure, could they be better? Yeah.
So we have about a dozen different dolls you can buy on our site here. These are manufactured by a private label under the name NextGen Dolls. Like many things, these are mass produced cutting corners where possible and delivering a product aimed at a low price.
After that, we bit the bullet and opted for a Real Doll. Sure the company is out to make a profit like anyone, but they are in the business of selling the best possible product, not a product at the lowest price possible. This is very different and the results are clear.
Make it your dream girl (or guy)
Unlike your playmates in real life, a real life doll can be built to your tastes. But like everything, it comes with a price.
If you want to stick with the budget dolls like those we sell here, your options are going to be limited. For the most part these are ready to go dolls and you get what you see. There options such as sexdoll.com which is a step up and allows some configurations to your dolls if you are willing to pay just a little more and wait a couple weeks. (They also do not offer a male doll) But for the best results, you can go with a Real Doll where you can configure pretty much everything.
With a Real Doll you can choose:
- Face
- Body Shape
- Nipples
- Skin Tone
- Hair Style
- Eye color
- Vagina Style
- Pubic Hair
- Pubic Hair Color
- Piercings
- Tranny Option (removable so you switch go back and forth)
- Freckles
I mean all the things!!! Even down to the make up and veins in the eyes!